A 50-year-old woman to her
friend:
‘I sometimes, feel like an
outsider to my family’
‘That’s not true! What makes you
say that?’
‘Nothing major. It’s just that
there are a few things that happen in the house which make me feel small... may be careless or not responsible’
‘You are 55, woman! You have lived
your whole life thinking about everyone in your family, you have sacrificed so
much for them, you have given so much to them... you can’t feel small after
doing all of this! Tell me what happened?’
‘I guess. But my family doesn’t feel that way. It was just in the morning today
when my granddaughter was playing in our room on the floor (who is 14 months
old) when suddenly my DIL (daughter-in-law) came in and snapped at me for not
looking at her daughter properly’
‘What was wrong in that?’
‘I know! I still cannot fathom
the reason behind such an attitude’
‘There is no reason! Your DIL is
a witch! That is how girls are these
days. They think only they know what is best
as if we have done nothing in our lives. And this is when they have only one
child. Imagine, in our times, we had 5-6 children along with the other children
in the same house and everything turned out good for everyone’
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Another 28-year-old to her
friend:
‘You know things are really
different in this house’
‘Different? Why? What happened?’
‘Nothing ya. Everyone in this house
is so carefree... or careless I must say that they don’t think about small
things that can happen! I am not raised like this and I cannot handle how
things work in this house’
‘But what happened, S... why are
you so upset?’
‘You know
what happened in the morning today? My daughter was playing in mummyji’s (addressed to mother-in-law) room on the floor, which is no problem. I
know she keeps it clean. But she was sitting near the electric board and was trying to play with the plug by inserting
her fingers in the switch! Can you beat that? And there was a charger connected
to the other plug which was again in her
hands! When I saw this, I completely lost it! I can’t take this ya! How can
they not see that? And it is so dangerous! Anything could have happened! Gone
are the days when there used be 5-children in the house. I have only one
daughter and if anything happens to her, I don’t know what I will do!
Instances
like this happen all the time in the house. And then they feel bad, that I
become rude, at times! You tell what am I supposed to do?’
Cheers
where I’ll be sharing about the daily nuances that we’ve been seeing in the same way since 1990’s! (:P) But this time you’re going to ponder over it a bit differently.
Feel free to express your thoughts and I'd be all ears!
I hope you have a great time here!
Interesting when things are viewed from both perspectives. The tale just changed and I didnt know who to sympathise with at all.
ReplyDeleteWish upon the stars
Another gem!
ReplyDelete1 situation. 2 sides. Who IS the witch?! Simply brilliant!
ReplyDeletehmmmm well as the story shows each story has two sides .. if only we take time to look at both the sides...
ReplyDeleteBikram's
o true, that when we get 'mad'at something we forget the other person doesnt even think of it on those lines!
ReplyDeletewell written of course!
http://slimexpectations.com/2017/04/letter-w/
I really like the way you present both sides of the situation. Really makes you think how to respond, doesn't it?
ReplyDeleteIt shows how we just think from our POV and never think from others POV. Interesting read Geet.
ReplyDeleteThat's why one must step into the other person's shoes before judging him or her.
ReplyDeleteThat just show how we shouldn't take anything on face value. Every story has another side to it. Nicely done, Geetika. :)
ReplyDeleteThat's why it is said, there are three sides to every scenario, yours, the other persons and the truth! Well written!
ReplyDeleteShubhangi @ The Little Princess
There are two sides to every story and the truth usually lies somewhere in the middle. :)
ReplyDeleteFor each his own perspective :-)
ReplyDeleteNice stories
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