Namita – smart, intelligent,
bold, chirpy and a very cheerful girl. Dear to her family. Have an elder
brother who took real good care of her. She’s totally a daddy's daughter. Very outgoing
and fearless. Have tons of friends. Live.. and let live, was her mantra in
life. Back in school time, when the only thing that mattered to her colleagues
was friendship, it was studies and only studies which she considered her BFF.
Her father always dreamt of her being a doctor. But Namita had other plans. She
was more into fashion, lifestyle, food, art, paintings, socializing, music..
medical industry was just not her cup of tea.
Post 12th, when she was required to fill in the forms for the entrance exams, her dad totally refused. But she was one adamant child. She filled in the forms and gave the exams. And obviously, she scored well and landed with one of the best fashion colleges of the country. Best day in her life, so far. She was on the top of the world. When she broke the news to her family, everyone was in the seventh heaven. Except her father. He was totally against this course and asked her not to take admission or he won’t be speaking to her anymore. Namita spent many sleepless nights and thought about it. All of it. She wanted to pursue her dreams, but didn’t want to make her father angry. She tried to convince him, or rather everyone in the house tried their best to convince him, but nothing worked. Every effort went futile. It was just before the last day of the submission of fees, where she really needed to take a tough stand. Her father or her career. She chose her career. It was all possible because of the support of her mother and her brother, that she was able to take such a bold step in her life. Going against the wish of the man who she worshipped. It was hard on her. But she didn’t let go of her dreams. 1st year of college finished, she was home for the summer break. Not a single day went by, where she didn’t try to persuade her father and make him calm down. He was stubborn. More than his daughter could ever be. He was mad at the entire family and didn’t talk much to anyone. He got use to all of it. Got use to not talking in the house. It was the end of 3rd year, when Namita was nominated for the award of the best student of the year. She topped her exams and brought other laureates as well to the college. Every staff member loved her and so did the Dean. When the college authorities gave a call to her family and had a word with her dad, it was then that he realized, what an immature thing he was doing. To himself and more importantly to his daughter. He couldn’t have been more proud. He had tears in his eyes and felt sorry. He apologised to her family and her daughter. During the function, he was the happiest person alive that day. He had missed so much about his daughter, her experiences, her friends, her college life.. he regretted all of it and promised her daughter to be by her side. Now and forever.
Post 12th, when she was required to fill in the forms for the entrance exams, her dad totally refused. But she was one adamant child. She filled in the forms and gave the exams. And obviously, she scored well and landed with one of the best fashion colleges of the country. Best day in her life, so far. She was on the top of the world. When she broke the news to her family, everyone was in the seventh heaven. Except her father. He was totally against this course and asked her not to take admission or he won’t be speaking to her anymore. Namita spent many sleepless nights and thought about it. All of it. She wanted to pursue her dreams, but didn’t want to make her father angry. She tried to convince him, or rather everyone in the house tried their best to convince him, but nothing worked. Every effort went futile. It was just before the last day of the submission of fees, where she really needed to take a tough stand. Her father or her career. She chose her career. It was all possible because of the support of her mother and her brother, that she was able to take such a bold step in her life. Going against the wish of the man who she worshipped. It was hard on her. But she didn’t let go of her dreams. 1st year of college finished, she was home for the summer break. Not a single day went by, where she didn’t try to persuade her father and make him calm down. He was stubborn. More than his daughter could ever be. He was mad at the entire family and didn’t talk much to anyone. He got use to all of it. Got use to not talking in the house. It was the end of 3rd year, when Namita was nominated for the award of the best student of the year. She topped her exams and brought other laureates as well to the college. Every staff member loved her and so did the Dean. When the college authorities gave a call to her family and had a word with her dad, it was then that he realized, what an immature thing he was doing. To himself and more importantly to his daughter. He couldn’t have been more proud. He had tears in his eyes and felt sorry. He apologised to her family and her daughter. During the function, he was the happiest person alive that day. He had missed so much about his daughter, her experiences, her friends, her college life.. he regretted all of it and promised her daughter to be by her side. Now and forever.
Namita is now a leading fashion
designer and travels all over the world for her work.
There is always a lot power
attached to dreams. All you need is a bit of courage to fight for your dreams. That
fire inside you, the determination to achieve, and faith in you to keep it
going is what makes it all a reality! There is always this fear attached when
you’re about to do something without the will of your parents. But if you
choose to believe in yourself, nothing can go wrong, nothing can beat you. And eventually,
you’ll start loving the life you have chosen for yourself and be happy in it.
For whatever happens, happens for a reason. So be bold, be fearless!
When are you starting your new
life?
This is my post written for the Housing.com.
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